thanks for your comment..
when i wrote about men making comments about a pretty woman i realise women also do that too.. i have seen it.. But,.. the whole Vibe of it when men do it is quite different. They say the most gross things and really like too much!!

I was careful to word this question using the word provocative.. so to answer your question about whether you should have to think about whether you carry sneakers or not.. i would say not.. one thing i didnt mention in the post, which i think i could have.. is that its also about the way you carry yourself and present yourself.. if you are not being flirtatcious and really not dressed up to impress then that is a different thing.. women shouldn't, in theory, have to overthink this... but in practice.. we have to just realise how things work.. also it all depends on the person and what they can tollerate and deal with. Some women can just brush off some stupid guy, whereas another may get quite upset.. so generalising isnt really fair to this answer..

p.s id wear eye glitter <3