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RE: The Only Relationship Advice You Will Ever Need

in #dtube7 years ago (edited)

Hi, @williamwest.

I totally agree with everything you said in your video. Transparency is a must if you really want for your relationship to work out and be healthy.
Though, I have two things I want to add.

  1. “Radical honesty”. You should do it very-very carefully. Because, some people are gentle enough and can’t handle too much truth in one go. Or they might not be prepared for what they will hear from you, which can lead to disastrous consequences. You just need to not overdo with the honesty. Or at least do it in several sessions and make sure that your partner is in a good mood and open to everything you will share with him or her.

  2. To make relationship healthy, you simply need to talk and not to be afraid to do it. No matter what it is, even if it might involve only yourself. If it involves both of you, it is super crucial to talk and share your thoughts with your beloved one. If you have a problem or something that bothers you and you are trying to hide it, you partner will eventually find out. And, Lord, have mercy, if he or she will find it out from the third party. Just talk. Because, being honest and solving problem together will only bind you, while silence will only make it worse.

Will be waiting for your new vids on dtube @williamwest! Have a nice day 👍 😃

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@moviebuff my brother 🙏🏼 I missed you and your comments, for real!

The first point that you bring up I couldn't agree with more, should definitely have touched upon that in my video. Especially if you've been together for a while, dropping 20 truth-bombs might not be a pleasant surprise and might actually turn out quite catastrophic depending on the relationship. Several sessions in that case is solid advice.

Regarding number two, not much to add, agree 100%. As you say, the longer you wait to say something the worse it gets, just make it a habit to talk openly and the problems will be minimized by large amounts.

Glad to have you back on the blog @moviebuff, I'd love to hear you're overall feedback on the videos as well if you have any, I respect your opinion. Also regarding the format of varying videos and articles. Have an amazing weekend! 🙏🏼😁

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