I will take the challenge! You are right, these things happen again and again until we figure out why we so much attached to those thoughts & ideas that we have about them. I'm learning more and more to keep my expectations only applicable to myself. It's hard, because I feel the world we live in is extremely based on judgment. Which is why I like this idea of 'causing offense' - to not put thoughts about someone else before your own values.

And yes, I've experienced it often, to not dare speak because of fear of being judged. That is insane. Causing offense is not meant to harm, but to totally be honest about what you believe in - and in the past year I've been trying to hold true to this, and some amazing things have happened. Including bad things, which made me learn a lot about myself!

Thanks for your encouraging words. Good night from the Netherlands!