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RE: Dealing With Intellectual Assault
Future mind if you are bigger than the him and have no fear of being hurt, you can also just yell your brains out until they cower and go away. But that only feels good for a few minutes and doesn’t fix the problem. The conciliatory approach, including making your own case, as needed, is more satisfying. Just don’t over-conciliate.
I prefer the conciliatory approach, and will choose this way every time as long as I don't feel someone is straight up disrespecting me, or calling me stupid. I quickly get hostile feelings. I have an idea why this is, but it still is not a good response to have, and I am working on it. It is not easy when that adrenaline surges through you mixed with anger.
Getting mad and screaming at people happens rather rarely with me, but once in a blue moon it does happen, and I end up feeling terrible about it, because that is not the person I am, it's rather an emotional response I have to not coping with my emotions correctly.
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