I prefer the conciliatory approach, and will choose this way every time as long as I don't feel someone is straight up disrespecting me, or calling me stupid. I quickly get hostile feelings. I have an idea why this is, but it still is not a good response to have, and I am working on it. It is not easy when that adrenaline surges through you mixed with anger.

Getting mad and screaming at people happens rather rarely with me, but once in a blue moon it does happen, and I end up feeling terrible about it, because that is not the person I am, it's rather an emotional response I have to not coping with my emotions correctly.

I appreciate your comment. Thank you for reading.