Be yourself
There are no two leaves that are exactly the same in the world, and there are no two people who are exactly the same. We have passed through thousands of troops and received exactly the same education. Everyone gets different. You have the beauty of spring flowers, and I have the beauty of autumn moons. I can't say which one is absolutely better. The only difference is whether there will be regrets and regrets for the youth that passed by in a hurry many years later.
Everyone has their own way of life. Young people like challenge, excitement and adventure. Willing to make waves in the crowd. When people are old, they are more willing to live a peaceful, stable and regular life. The law is like a clock, and it is as rigid as a print.
However, no matter which way of life, we must remember one thing, never lower your head and continue to walk high! Facing the roughness and thorns of youth, face the declining old age!
In any case, don't succumb to disease. It is normal for people to be sick. Don't lose the passion of life because of illness and forget the beauty of life. Not succumbing to this disease does not mean not actively treating the disease, nor does it mean not being overwhelmed by the disease, let alone losing the will to overcome the disease. Illness has to arise and recover, depending on how we view it. Young frivolousness is the root of the disease, and old stubbornness is also a headache!
The heart is so good. Looking at the world, the sky is blue and the sea is wide. What else must we change. With a perfectly good attitude, even cancer may disappear naturally, but miracles will only happen to those who are not overwhelmed by this disease.
No matter what, don't bow your head to your child. Not bowing to your child means not relying too much on your child. They have their own families and children, so we should not interfere with their affairs too much, but to live our lives. When they grow up, we can not only take our grandchildren to cook for their children. We can also travel with our wives, drink tea and play cards with old friends, and hang out with old classmates. These are all ways to enjoy our own lives. We must say goodbye to our children early, so as not to let them miss too much on the day we leave. Letting go early will make the child more independent and close to perfection.
In any case, don't succumb to money. Desire is a well of dissatisfaction, and money will make your self-esteem nowhere to escape. The beauty of life lies in its fairness and irreversibility.
Money is never enough to spend, but it doesn't stop there. Don't let these insignificant things "steal" our happiness and joy. Crude tea and light rice are also a kind of life, and the impact of cabbage on health is no worse than that of abalone. The happiness you compare cannot make you truly happy!
Therefore, don't lose the original happy life because of money and desire. In particular, the elderly should forget fame, wealth, happiness and satisfaction, and enjoy their old age in order to achieve longevity and longevity.
In any case, don't succumb to age. Once a person gets old, even his footsteps will begin to tremble, his words will become verbose, and he will become a bad old man or old lady in the mouth of others.
Don't be bound by age, don't keep it in mind, just think about the things you should do every day, such as exercise, shopping for vegetables, taking grandchildren, playing cards, playing chess, sunbathing, watching TV, etc., a day is very relaxing and enjoyable . A happy mood is the secret recipe for not getting old.
Always keep the "not old heart", you will always be young. Facing the mirror, I am the youngest self at this moment. In the face of life, this moment is all you have. Give enthusiasm to youth, leave open-mindedness to twilight. Not humble or overbearing, be yourself!