wow this is amazing but at the same time must have been so hard on you!
So do you still avoid situations and movies, and people explaining accidents?
How do you deal with it now that you know what it is?
I think I myself have maybe half of what you have. I don't physically feel the pain or have the mirror effect but I feel the anxiety when it happens - I feel the physical symptoms of anxiety or stress for the person but not the actual pain of the person.. I do respond to pain more and am anxious or apprehensive of another person's impending pain - whether physical or emotional.