Treat your girl like YOUR POSSESSION.

That’s right, you read that right. You value what’s YOURS so why not value YOUR girlfriend? She’s getting old? She isn’t the iPhone X? Well guess what, she’s getting updated Every. Fucking. Day. New thoughts and new passions, but that’s not all. There are physical changes too. Maybe something minuscule like a zit. Things that develop over time like weight gain or loss. Something more noticeable like a new hairstyle or clothes. And the things that no one wishes on any other human being: illnesses. You take care of what’s YOURS, and you try to keep what’s YOURS in the best condition it could possibly be in. You also stay updated on what’s important to you. Every day is a new day filled with new experiences, feelings, emotions, and tasks. Ask her how her day was, what happened, how it made her feel, and build upon the relationship. If you don’t care about the way she makes you feel, or you don’t care about not being with her, let her go. She deserves to be a prized possession. She doesn’t deserve to be reminded that she isn’t worth being cared about. Because if you don’t care about what’s YOURS, slowly but surely, it’s only going to be lost.

A thought that came to mind which felt very true to me. I hope you girls can forgive me for calling you a possession. In no way do we own you. I just felt like this worked, haha. ❤️

• Sincerely, Sam.

Also, one last clarifying note: This is in no means gender binary and applies to all relationships.