There are so much more I could list down, but as a blanket explanation, Li's fate and mine seems to be intertwined in more than multiple occasions. We just didn't see the signs when we were younger. Have you ever had that kind of relationship?

I knew my wife on the Internet. We were in a long-distance relationship for ten years. On and off.

We did not meet in person until after those ten years passed. Three months later we got married. More than ten years later, we are still together, still freaking living happily ever after.

Signs? A lot, man. We didn't recognize them until we met. But when you find the one, you gotta take action.