Where and with whom? - Reflection

Have you ever wondered if you really are from the place where you are, if you really belong to that environment and environment where you are, where you live, where you work, where you study, from your group of friends, from your family.  

The reality is q ue not belong to any specific site by conditions imposed. 

I mean we belong to a place, or a job, a school, a university, a group of friends, a family when we feel good there, when they accept us as we are with our defects and virtues, when people who are involved with you, with which you live day by day, they impel you to grow and help you in everything you need, they advise you, they share experiences, they care about you, they guide you, they help you to be better, to be a better student , to be a better worker, to be a better friend, a better neighbor, a better son, brother, father, help you to be a better person, a better human being.  

Source.

Many people tell you things like "It's your family and you have to love it".  

Personally I do not agree with that, one thing is the blood and genetic links that bind you with some person and another is that the same person who carries your blood wins from you and inspires in you feelings towards her, I have always said that the affection is won with actions, not with gifts or anything like that, but with those actions or gestures that show affection, a message, a call, support in difficult moments and the actions that I mentioned earlier that help you grow as person and the concern of those people because you have that growth.  

That there is a family that is not blood, it is totally true for all that I mentioned, to many it happens to us and it has happened to me on several occasions that I have lived in situations in which I have received greater support from other people than from my own relatives , not all, I have relatives like some cousins ​​and uncles who mean much more than that to me, who have great value for me and have earned it hard not only for the fact of being "my family" ... but I have also told with other people that maybe we do not have the same last name but for me they are my family and I recognize them as such, friends who become brothers, uncles and even a few seconds for you ... As they say "Friends are the family that we choose "and it's totally true. 

What I want to achieve with all this is that we can remember and that we never forget that we are souls and free spirits, free to choose where to be, with whom to share our time, that we should not allow anything or anyone to cling to any site or some person that we do not feel comfortable with and most importantly.

 Let us be ourselves at all times, that nothing changes our way of being, thinking and acting.