Meet your friend's wedding party invitation ..

If I accept an invitation-not just a wedding invitation-then I oblige myself to attend. As long as I do not have another more important. Because for me personally, fulfilling an invitation is an honor. Because the inviter has been willing to give me an "award", in the form of the invitation.
Invitations.Yes, invitations.From various references and discourses that adorn throughout my life, there is one advice that I follow about this invitation.If we get an invitation, is obligatory to meet the invitation tersebut.Selama no obstacles that really urgent, who can hold us To attend the invitation.

( @green07 and I @curiesea accompany two brides :-)

Speaking of invitations, I just had a story related to this. In the form of a wedding invitation. Ahh .... maybe you'll just smile and conclude, that I received a wedding invitation from an ex. So I feel upset and need an outlet to reduce the mellow sense of the mellow. Namely by writing this
No! Your guess is wrong. His invitation is true, wedding invitation. But this invitation is not from a former girlfriend. Playing a friend is a genuine friend invitation in school.

Of course we will feel happy not play.When we get an invitation from an old friend.Friends in the past.Teman in youth.Teman in elementary school to secondary.It means the friend still remember and "assume" we still exist. Then finally invite us to share the joy when off single time.

The two brides seem to be very excited about the sticker that says Hallo Steemit

As in other countries that have many stages before a person is actually officially become a husband and wife then in Aceh was also the case. Before the official bride to husband and wife must first go through some fairly long custom procession. What are the custom procession. The procession of traditional wedding in Aceh is divided into several stages which all must be passed by the bride. Here are the stages in Acehnese traditional marriage ..

Photos, the crowd brings the groom to the bride's home

. Apply Phase (Ba Ranup)

Ba Ranup or the stage of applying itself in Aceh is set with a fairly long custom ie first if a man who is considered mature enough already time to marry then to find a mate for the man or if a man has his own choice of a woman to Being his wife then the first thing to do is to send relatives who are elderly and considered capable in speaking (referred to as theulangke) to meet the family of the woman to ask whether the woman's status is concerned someone has or not. If it turns out there is no one who has and no ties whatsoever with other people then theulangke expressed his proposal.

Ornamental betel leaf, neatly arranged, the crown-shaped crown of the king of Aceh. The composition of betel leaf is above the banana tree trunk. Unique not Steemians ... in my opinion unique and creative

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On the appointed day both parties then the male family sent some elderly men to come to the women's parent's house to officially apply with betel and its contents as a symbol of strengthening the bond and sincerity. After the application is completed and the entourage of applicants has returned then then the family is proposed the family of the woman berpusyawarh with his daughter about whether or not received the application.

1. Stage Engagement (Jakba Tanda )

If then the application is accepted by the women then the next procession is the family of the men will come back to the woman's parents to talk about her marriage day (called peukeong haba) as well as to determine how much dowry desired by the prospective bride (called Jeunamee) and how many guests will be invited to the reception.

At the same event after all the deliberations about the size of the dowry, the wedding day and the number of guests who will be invited by the families of the two brides to reach an agreement, then proceed with the next event which is the engagement event or called Jakba Tanda. In this event the prospective groom will deliver a variety of foods typical of Aceh and also other items, including buleukat kuneeng with tumphou, various fruits, a set of women's clothing and jewelry tailored to the ability of male families.

But because there are times when both parties have reached the stage of the marriage engagement was canceled due to various things then the 'rules of play' in this engagement if it turns out in the end both sides failed bersanding in pelaminan then the golden marks that have been given it if that causes the failure of marriage Not married) is the prospective groom then the golden sign will be considered charred but if it turns out the cause is a prospective bride then the golden sign must be replaced by two-fold.

1. Party Guarantee

After all the steps can be passed then only the core event was held ie the wedding party itself. Two other processions in the marriage customs of the Acehnese community are also important, namely the new tueng dara which means a traditional pickup made by the bridegroom to the bride and tueng linto baroe meaning otherwise. After the bridegroom performed the marriage ceremony before the pack of kadi and has officially become a husband and wife, the party was held to give opportunity to all invited guests who wish to congratulate the bride and groom.