Man, all I can say is, you will never get everything sorted out. This happened with us as well. Got the best venue, best menu, then clothing, etc etc. It never stops. Eventually you feel, like you do right now, spent. And tensions running high. I've been where you are bud. But after all is said and done, you'll look back to the day and be very happy and proud to be married to the love of your life. Enjoy and congrats.