keep to your words. Especially money matters pay back borrowed money
I guess this is not something we get to talk about everyday. But it is important we do whether or not you're in a relationship with
someone or not.
This is story about a guy who is in a relationship with this lady. I'll need to cut the story short
So sometime last year around March he lost his job. I must say his girlfriend has being very supportive, very understanding doesnt complain. Sometimes he vents his anger and fustration on this lady, sometimes she cries but she still understands and hides under the disguise that he is only doing this because he is not hapoy with his situation.
Few occassions when he needed money, she understood the urgency about it and had to sacrifice just to make sure he was able to accomplish the purpose for the money.
So by November 2017, still jobless and no money. He needed money to pay for something, and of course she is always ready to help him. She gave her all to him and had to starve for some days. She didnt tell him anyways. She just endured. You might be thinking how much ahe gave him, not so much. She gave him 5,000 which he said je would return the next week with 100% interest. Sounds nice i guess!! She didnt give him the money because of the 100% interest but because she wanted to help him.
And guess what, you would expect that he refunded the money the next week well if i was you i would think so too but he didnt. She didnt ask about it, he didnt say anything about it. Weeks passed he still didnt say anything about. Let me remind you this is not the first time she is giving him money but this was the first time she was lending well thats because she didnt have any money as at that time.
She finally asked about the money. You would think he wanted to give her back. He started giving excuses how he wants to use to the money he has now for something else. If only he knew she had to starve for him. She forgot about it. Thats how man months now. So early February she asked about the money again and he started acting up, how she is wicked and is disturbinh him and insulting him indirectly for the money.
No remorse at all!!! If you don't have it why not say it!! Why do you've to act that way? Why don't you just explain to whoever that you don't have that money as at that time? Why is it always difficult for you to pay back borrowed money? So it is very easy to borrow but to pay back is a big crime for you?
So you think because you're in a relationship with her or him you shouldn't pay? So because you think she is your wife or husband you shouldn't pay back borrowed money? Or because he/she is your child you're not entitled to pay back? Or because you're in a sexual relationship You shouldn't pay back borrowed money? Or because he/ she is your friend?
You're a bully!!! Yes that's what you're.... it is unfair
Back to the story next thing he sent her the money with the interest which ahe doesn't rrally want. And told her never to call him again that he hates her!!....weeks later she sent a message he told her he hated her and how she made hik miss a job because of that money. That he was suppose to use thw money to travel to another city where he got the job.
How is she suppose to know? He could have jiat told her?
That is not the issue so because they're dating he is not suppose to pay? Are you kidding me?
Whether you're in a relationship or whatever excuse always learn to keep to your words pay back borrowed money.
Well, i know i don't really have much followers but i would like you to read to the end and comment what tou think?
Thanks again to my steem fam...
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