Exactly on all counts! Toxic masculinity is the worst - but I feel like younger people are less attached to gender roles and stereotypes. I've read that the numbers of gender non-conforming teenagers are increasing - a good sign in so many ways, I think. Less stigma, worry, danger. More support from parents, etc. But yes, such a long way to go, especially systematically speaking. My husband and I are doing our damnedest to raise our son to be sweet, kind, sensitive, and to know the meaning of consent...
Cheers :-)