WOMAN : AN INESTIMABLE JEWEL @ emmanuel007

A transformed woman is equipped with more resources and could be more useful to God than a woman not transformed. A trained and transformed woman is even more resourceful. Sarah was an illiterate but she was resourceful and a virtuous woman who helped her husband (Abraham) in fulfilling God's plan.

All over the world, we are celebrating international Women's Day/ Mother's Day which to me should be celebrate everyday. women are wonderfully and fearfully created by God. Sometimes ago, a friend of mine give the meaning of the acronym WIFE as,
W - Wonderful
I - Investment
F - For
E - Enjoyment
which after thorough consideration of different factors, attributes and qualities, are all true. As we celebrate Mother's day , we should take a look at the issues affecting women in marriage and to solve them.

It is not a gainsaying that the home belongs to the woman who make sure everything are in place, assembled, Co-ordinate, positioned and arranged in the house, also to make the husband comfortable and well taken cared. Many husband have turned their Wife into a bullying pouch, husband should know that using vulgar language against their wife is totally wrong because such home is nolonger in obedience to God directives. It is also seen that women that are not working, who depend on their husbands for everything are prone to be abused because their husbands is the only source of finance in the family. women should at least involved in petty trade so as to cater for their own Immediate needs.

Another issue in ungrateful/appreciation, many partners find it very difficult to appreciate eachother for little things which really counts. There was a situation of a woman who never see anything her husband done by the husband as anything, it get to an extent that he stop doing things for her. In a close content, women should learn how to compromise in providing for the family especially when their husband are not financially stable; this is the time to appreciate him more.

Argument and misunderstanding are inevitable in marriage but it takes a virtuous woman with wisdom to end it before it escalated into crisis. Husband and wife should know that communication, respect, meekness, understanding, forgiveness and love conquer all in the family. It is well should always come from all women to their husbands. Never compare her with anyone else, she's your cuteness, light, and queen. As husband, make sure you define your relationship with others. As a woman, make sure you hold your position, do not leave your position. As partners understand eachother weakness not competing; marriage is not a place for competition.

Do not discuss about your husband or wife to anybody outside.Make sure the home is welcomeable for your husband after having hectic day at work. Early in marriage alot will happen both good, bad and ugly but as days goes by both of you will outgrow it, remember it is a journey which you must move from one level to another.

Above all, women are multitasking because that is how they are built by the creator and they should be cared for by their husband. we should know that as son, your mother is also your wife; take care of her always. Your mother don't always need your money but love, care and attention. Let us appreciate all women in our life always and forever. I celebrate my mother who give me life and make me who I am today.

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