yes sorry it can be for a woman not ready ... but rest assured when you are, see if you can get a doula! the doula is ready to be there for you when a family member maybe cannot or if you just want someone neutral who will help you decide what is best for you in the birthing process.
I learned so much that people just do not have the knowledge of the options available, we just think we have to listen to the doctor and we do not. we can totally just do it on our own if we want with medical attention closeby of course. yes mothers def deserve some love!