For women who are currently waiting for a certain match, be patient

For women who are currently waiting for a certain match, be patient and continue to be strong with the principle of self, do not want to be trapped in the guile of men who just want to try your heart.

You must firmly say "sorry, I'm not a milea, I don't need words of hope, what I need is certainty in obedience".

But unfortunately women today are mostly melted even with only false words, so it is appropriate if in the end a lot of pain is experienced.

But firm does not mean arrogant, remain gentle and humble in any situation or condition.
But when it comes to self-respect, it is strictly needed, especially if there is a man who approaches only to invite you to date, don't let you lose your responsibilities as a Muslim only for false love.

In essence, you don't want to be offered a sweet appointment and hope, but if you invite you to marry you. Because, love will be truly real if both are legitimate together.

After all, you have to be aware that true love is not as cheap as mere words, if he really likes and has good intentions, of course he will not only invite you to date, but be patient.

It may be difficult to distinguish the serious from those who only want to play, because if the man has said sweet, then the lie is as if it were real.

But if you are smart, of course you will not be complacent just like that. Because women who are really smart and good at protecting themselves will not melt just by hearing the phrase "I like you".

A smart woman certainly knows that the love in her mouth must be just a hoax, because the real serious must immediately meet her parents.

That is why you are a woman who is still alone at the moment, keep being careful to guard your heart.
no need to flower when someone presents attention and sweet words.

Remember wisely, longing for being unlawful is hard, you will not be strong, and it may be that when you are not strong it is likely that you will do something that Allah hates most like the world of adultery and the like.

just married, if you really have an interest in him, firmly ask him to marry, if he does not want to with the conditions that you give, then just leave it, then believe there will be another man who is better later.