Just have realistic expectations. Doesn't matter what gender you are. I do well because I've been working with @steemcleaners since the beginning. I also started @spaminator.

I have the skills to run and maintain a server but I'm not a developer or programmer so I don't have any expectations to make it into the top 20. And I'm fine with that. I'd like to hang out around 40-50 but there are a lot of witnesses who both run a reliable server and have other valuable contributions to the community.