Here is a universal question for anyone/everyone.
I once had a conversation with one of my nephews about the possibility of him considering joining the regular army. I sat him down and went through his motivation, what he hoped to accomplish and what his aspirations are. However, when I asked him whether he had contemplated the fact that he may have to participate in a tour of duty. He said "Not really!".
So, as a response to this I said:
"Do you want to fight another man's war for them?"
To which he replied:
"No!"
"Then, do not join any of the armed forces!"
So, my question is;
WOULD YOU FIGHT ANOTHER MAN'S WAR FOR HIM?