As a former hair student, yeah she did the wrong thing. making a bold move like that, she should have consulted you first to make sure it was the right move with you in mind! It really grinds my gears when a stylist takes things in their own hands without consent. It would've been a simple "I see there's extra volume here, is that something you're going for? If not, I can reduce it for you." It should have been a discussion first! That's like an obgyn just sliding their contraptions up in you with no warning, unethical. You are very mature indeed! and you have passed that experience along to your ever absorbing baby to be <3 Already nailing motherhood <3