No, her husband was unfair and selfish, and maybe because of him, for her the divorce is actually the only way out of a loveless marriage. I've read a book on rape, and they say women in this situation actually respond (even though they feel guilty about it afterwards, which they shouldn't), as it's the body's way to prepare itself for not being torn and bruised too much by the deed.

Please tell your friend to hold her head up high, and look forward to a beautiful and bright future, not backwards to a dark and loveless past.