Obviously you are correct in more than one ways, but I didn't want to increase the ratios of darkness by adding the vices of modern relationships... I was sure someone would write them though ahahaha... :D

In a way, the evolution of relationships had a dual effect. You get something but you also lose something. In the past, when marriages due to love were scarce (that's if it was even a choice of the man and woman - and not their families who chose for them) the catalytic benefit of men getting the force-multiplying effect was much scarcer also.

The relatively new widespread ability of men and women to freely engage in relationships of their own choice, based on criteria like attraction, can greatly increase the force-multiplying abilities. A man will be way more motivated by a woman he is actually very attracted to, than not.

At the same time, the ability of women to choose, based on more hard-"cold" criteria, is the tradeoff. And from there we have a whole sort of problems arising for relationships.

I won't generalize issues like who wins through a divorce, because these are highly region-specific, depending the legal framework in place, but in some countries of the west it's definitely a very unbalanced equation. It is also unbalanced in some developing countries or backward-oriented countries, where women have much fewer rights. As societies, we need to find the optimum regarding these.

Another explanation is that men love women, women love children.

Indeed. This gives me a good opportunity to add that if there is something similar to how men can amplify their force through women, that's how women can amplify their force through their children. The motivation of a mother to protect their child can create circumstances of force-multiplication that could be similar to how a man can amplify his own power by being motivated by a woman. That can also be seen in the animal kingdom as well. A cat protecting her kitten can beat even 5 large dogs going after the cat's home.

If this reality is a virtual reality, then I'm pretty certain that these man-woman, woman-child, animal mother-animal children relations are all similarly "coded" as equations that involve the multiplication of power.