I completely understand, I struggle to focus on anything other than Steemit when I'm fully active. I've allowed it this long but there's more important things to focus on.

I've just setup SteemAuto for the same reason, that way I can focus on reading and commenting on the stuff I want to while still curating in my own little way.

Again, I completely understand, I'm pretty much the same. I only got discord to use ginabot, and tend to just leave it on all day even if I'm not actually at my computer. Never any pressure to respond to me!