Bravo. Good for you! <3 Part of that art form is also knowing how to resolve conflict peacefully, letting go and a whole host of other skills. Embrace the journey. Lots to learn along the way. My wife and I just celebrated 24 years of marriage and known each other for over 30. We went through some dark and painful experiences, but we are still here, learning, supporting and loving each other the best way we can. Our boundaries help tremendously. May Creator bless your journey with the art of peace, freedom, prosperity, joy and LOVE!!!