Yup. Spending less is not the way through this. Providing for one self and others is the way. It just so happens that when you accomplish that goal, you spend less. I've told people for years, if you want to figure out where your dependencies are, follow the money. Because it is too much of a leap for most people, I tell them to find the smallest 'expense' and find a way to replace it yourself. Then use the money you save to tackle the next item on the list. Eventually you will be able to UNGRIP and be much more free than ever before. Hard work indeed. <3