Amen to that brother. I focus on my own peace first, despite the turmoil it causes outside of myself. But at some point I must then reach out and reconcile with others, especially if they were impacted by my journey. Sadly some of them get violent with me and I ended my relationship with them as I have a zero tolerance to violence. But it is a tough process at times. Peace must always start within! Always!!! Bravo to you for recognizing that and integrating it within your teachings. Peace to you brother.