Goals

Build for the future, life is too short wasting time on people tha don't support your goals.Focus and Focus on your goals, focus on your dreams.
you Got a new job and its taking too much time and your boyfriend is mad at you? Let him be mad.
You Got a scholarship to study far ✈✈and you afraid to leave him behind? Take the damn scholarship, he'll manage.
You Want to try a different look 👙👠👡👓 but you afraid your man may not like it?
My sister try that new look anyway....

So many times I've seen women sacrifice themselves for men.
.So many of u have governed thea plans around the goal to be settled at a certain age, the brainwash that marriage is the ultimate goal has mislead so many of you to sacrifice yourselves for a love thats not deserving. Because no matter how accomplished you are as a woman, society, friends, relatives look at you as if you are incomplete if there isnt a ring by the age of 30.

And you know what the sad truth is,some men dont usually sacrifice themselves for you....
Mbwenu u just look on while he starts a new job in a different city, same opportunity you would have considered to turn down just to save the relationship.
Marriage isn't everything. Education,Independence and financial freedom is.
Your degree wont wake up one morning and leave u 4 a random hoe or bitch from the club after you dedicated so many years and efforts to it.....
Your career wont dump you with a toddler and leave you a broken hearted single mom after making promises to marry you....
Focus. Build yourself.
Build your dreams.
In life u gota Put you first, nobody else will...
This applies to fellow guys as well its a two way thing..