i think the biggest reason it seems unscalable- for me, at least!-- is because we could very easily fall in or get hurt or perhaps even worse, we could experience The Unknown!!! And that triggers really intense responses in anyone, regardless of where they're coming from. But to me the thing that's on the other side-- relationships, wholeness, Beloved Community, what have you-- is so totally worth realizing that we have all the tools and technologies we need to pass safely to the other side-- things like conversation and compromise and community that we all have innate access to... how wonderful of you to try to make spaces to do this work!

and if you're into midwifery, are you familiar with Mary Breckinridge? ugh what a badass