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RE: When your family gives you the Back and lose your Loyalty
The interesting truth about family is that it redefines itself through the years. Loyalties turn to those who are most like family. You mentioned your son. Your sister realizes that your loyalty is to him and in perfect times, his mother, aka your wife.
It'd be great if family never evolved; but, then maybe not. Just as you express needing someone in your corner, your sis has those same needs. The only difference is that she's found them being met by friends with whom she has the most in common.
I know what you're feeling; but, that's one of the stark, cold realities of life. Those you thought would always stand with you, aka siblings, children, etc. will move on to paths suited for their journey.
Peace.
You are very right, it is a matter of time and knowing how to know the feelings and decisions of others, perhaps in my mind things are different, but the reality is different.
Thank you very much for taking the time to read my publication.
Truth is @bigdude...the 'whole' family is very complex; but, staying in touch is so important on so many levels. Even in these connected times, oftentimes family members become estranged for one reason or other. The thing is, always try to be there for your sis; because, you are her closest go to (humanly speaking) (whether you know it or not ;+)...when life htf.
Prayers that you will find someone to fill her place in your life.
Best regards.
Peace.