I have it the same way as you ... but my daughter only has me so sometimes I just gotta pull myself together and do it ... normally I try to do it on days where I know there are less people ... hehe but that is not possible on my bday ... but her happiness makes up for my uneasiness with being in a crowded place ... one good thing about tivoli is that there are lots of areas and many are quiet where you can sit away from all the business in the more gardenlike areas and by the lake they are distanced from the rides so you can actually find solace as well in there