Letting go...I think it depends on the sign...or personality. I think...some signs are just not into loving someone...more than say...they love themselves...They place more emphasis in protecting themselves or ego...or pride...whatever is their self focus. Versus some other personalities who are very loving and willing to go through ups and down because they love their significant other as easily as it is to love themselves...see..key phrase..."as easily as it is to love themselves" We have this thing where we keep separating, dismissing, and taking folks for granted, forgetting what people have done for us easily...all for the sake of "I'm not letting negativity in my life"...I think we have to stop that. Positivity was not meant to have you separating yourself from anyone that poses small conflicts in your life.