TEARDROPS: When the Trial Came to Turn Without Stopping, Realize that You Are Living in the World, Not in Heaven

"I'm tired, this suffering is like nothing. Not even anyone cared and accompanied when I fell like this. "

Yes, maybe that's a line of sentences that you often say when receiving trials. As if you are the most suffering person in the world. Complaining, complaining, and complaining continuously without stopping.

You are always jealous of the lives of others who seem happier. In your mind, you whisper if God is not fair, "why should I accept this destiny?" Your tears drip non-stop. You slumped in the corner of a dark room locked tightly, with a music that sounded so loud. As if that all can solve the problem.

For a moment calm yourself. Think about it, does your time have to be wasted just to cry and complain? Before you fall into a state of too deep despression, you should first refer to the following statements:

1. When you complain because you always eat with those side dishes, that's all there are many people out there who are hungry all day.

"Today, we eat tempe, tomorrow we will know, tomorrow the next day we eat tempe, we will know the next day. Boring! Look, it's so delicious that rich people, every day eat chicken, satay, beef, grilled fish, huh, indeed my life is sad. "

Wait, are you sure your life is really sad? If you eat rice with tempeh, it's called sad, then what about the people out there who can't even eat all day? They must be willing to resist hunger that pierces the stomach, or maybe a packet of bread is enough to block it. If you think about it, of course your life is much more comfortable than that.

2. I am a graduate, but unfortunately I haven't got a job. While those who graduated from junior high school have become leaders.

At the beginning of graduation, maybe you still have a burning spirit to apply for work by sending thousands of applications. Through electronic mail, send to the post office, attend the job fair, and even come directly to the company.

But as day after day passed, no calls came. You start giving up and despairing. You think that all this time you've been wasting your time and money in vain just for college. After all, there are many junior high school graduates who become shift leaders , or other respected positions in a company.

"Then what about me? Can only be a loser? "

Someone who always thinks so, shows that the person has a narrow mind. Do you remember the saying "Many roads to Rome" Guys, working as employees in the company, is not the only way to get money. Try it, try it, and try to do something else.

Like being a copywriter, an online shop business, being a tailor, opening a cake shop, car wash, internet cafe, laundry, or if you are an engineer , you can open an electronic service business, and many others.

The main key to try it is don't be shy and don't be afraid to fail! Didn't a leader or company leader first experience many difficulties? It's just that, all you can see now is success and success. Because the neighboring grass always looks greener.

3. Since he broke off and left me, my life feels dark without passion.

"He is the lover I love the most, my soul mate. But now he left me with another woman. I was sad, I slumped, I could not put any food into my mouth, my body felt weak, there was no more passion in my life, maybe I would just die. "

Oh gurls, stop being a Drama Queen!

Be aware if he is not your husband, not your father, not your brother, not your family, only a friend with a "girlfriend" status. Someone who was not in your life, then came to stop by, and now he goes back. Despite the weight, try to understand him to go. Time will not stop, life will continue even without him by your side.

Look, little kids out there left by their parents forever. They are orphaned, but they continue to fight for their lives. Realize, that everything in this world is only "transitory". There is nothing we can really have, everything is just a deposit that will come and go just like that.

4. The accident has snatched my legs, now the world feels the end of the world.

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"The deadly accident has snatched my legs, now I will not be able to walk again." Is this what you are experiencing right now? Are you one of those people who has abnormal physical condition? So much ridicule was heard in my ears. Then you decide to hide inside the house. Yes, that way you don't have to be hurt because you are insulted.

"You're not alone", open the eyes of your heart. Look, there are a lot of people with disabilities out there. They are special people. Those who keep smiling and struggling with their shortcomings. Those who do not care about ridicule from fools who feel their lives are too perfect.

Never be ashamed! Look at those who suffer from hydrocephalus (large head), cancers that damage the face or other limbs, clefts, heart patients, then someone who can't see the light, or just to talk. Believe me, everything is always there. Maybe you won't know it now, you have to be patient.

Don't spend your time thinking about their insults. There are still many people who love you. God loves you, and a family figure that will always be there, in every time you need it.

5. Indeed,ife in the world is full of trials, while in heaven it is filled with happiness.
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It has become a nature if life in the world is always full of trials and trials. As humans, we only need to survive to live it. Be grateful when you are happy and patient in times of trouble. You don't need to complain, or always be jealous of other people's lives.

Actually there is no one in this world who escapes trial. It's just that, sometimes there are different ways of responding to these trials. There are people who always confide in other people, you who spread their suffering by putting on social media status, some prefer to be quiet, and some just complain to God.

Life in the world is only temporary. We are just a traveler who stopped for a moment. Later, when it's over, we will go to Him. If we can go to His heaven, we will get eternal happiness forever.

That is the reality of life. Remember Hipwee's best friend, when a door is closed, God will open another door for you.