Story : Love Your Marriage

in #teammalaysia6 years ago (edited)

Love Your Marriage

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One day, a man returned from work and found his wife cooking. He gave her a sweet kiss.

They are very happy. While they were at the dinner table, suddenly his wife cell phone rang, a message from her friend who said 'good night'

Her husband saw the message and was disappointed. He did not talk about it with his wife and went straight into the bedroom without dinner.

The wife saw her husband and thought:

No! This is incorrect! Was he interrupted by just 1 short message? I will not care about it, he's not a child.

The woman ate and slept. The couple were asleep and turned away that night.
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In the middle of the night, the wife suddenly sweat a lot. She can not speak. It felt like the air was not around her. Her breathing is getting short.

She touches the back of the husband. But the husband just turned and shoved his wife's hand.

As a result of lack of oxygen, the woman died of a heart attack.

In the morning, the husband wakes up, baths and prepares his belongings.

The wife is still in bed, the man looks at her and looks like his wife is in no way good, but as a result of his anger, he ignores it and thinks:

'I will not talk to her, so she does it first!'

Then, he dressed, breakfast and went to work.

In the evening, when the husband is about to go home, he has bought a beautiful and precious watch to give his wife a sign of apology.

When a husband arrives at home, his heart is so happy that he will give a precious hour to his beloved wife and told her how much he loved her,

how much he falls in love with her and will give a lot of kisses.

Then, he opened the door and went to the kitchen, as he was ready to surprise his lover with a great dinner,

but he saw that the breakfast was still there;

then he thinks:
'She's still mad at me ..'

The man went to the room to leave his briefcase, and saw that the wife was still in bed lying in the same position.

He went to her and how surprised he was when his instincts told him that his wife was dead.

Husbands cry, cry many and more. He screams regrets, because her beloved wife is gone ...


Reflection:

Time is too short for fights. Learn how to use it.

Be worthy and care about your spouse. Love your wife or husband, treat a couple with a kiss, tell her how much we love her, love and love !!!

Because time never waits for anyone. Learn to understand each other and complete everything, do not sleep in anger.


Stop and think:

If you do not want to set aside the ego and solve the trivial things, the problem will not be solved.

Sometimes we need to sacrifice for love;

no one is perfect,

ready for any chance and find the best solution.

Communication between couples is very important,

when having a problem no matter how small or large, try to finish it before going to bed.

I'm not saying that a marriage is always happy all the time,

A marriage must have its ebb.

But everything has a solution but is OFF.


By @zamifara...

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'He's still mad at me ..'
She screams regrets, because her beloved wife is gone ...

I believe your pronouns got mistaken halfway through.


Scary...the lack of understanding and the need for control is unhealthy in the relationship.

I don't get how some spouses (both men and wives) can't accept other people talking to their loved ones. I mean of course if there were history of infidelity i would understand.

But controlling so much that one gets mad over a text message? man that's not just wrong.. It's old.

Plus not even asking who is she texting to. It can also be her mother texting her good night. I wonder why he didn't even bother to ask.. Then end up in regret for the rest of his life. Only if he asked and not jump into conclusion of his own, things might be different.

@heartbeat1515 I come to understand that marriage is layered and multi-faceted, anthropologically humans aren't evolved to live in a nuclear family environment. or of course our genetics are doing their best to go against our more modern life.

It could be any reasons, and even with the story there is a chance that the wife is at fault.. that's how marriage is. Nothing is case-by-case especially in husband/wife dynamics. But yes there is a lesson to be told here.

Yes, that is true also. Both can be guilty also. Thanks for reminding me @awesomianist.

@heartbeat1515 hahahah is no reminder la!! just personal opinion from a guy who has no experience in marriage hhahahaha

😅 Don't worry about marriage experience. The only thing you need to do is get married to have one. Sound like simple and yet one of the most difficult a?d no turning back decission in life.

Actually it is my habit to take other positive opinion as a reminder of my own goal in life. Follow my personal opinion blog and you'll know me more 😅

@heartbeat1515 Nice one!! hahaha.. I'll definitely do!

Yes..true indeed. Some husbnd is always serkap jarang to his wife...

Thank you for checking and read @awesomianist...

Sometime we make some mistake and misunderstanding in marriage right.

Thanks for drop your words...😊

An interesting story is very inspiring, thanks for sharing

You’re welcome @ikhsanoki94..
Thanks for drop your words...

Okay, thanks again
Always succes

I absolutely agree with the part 'solve everything before going to bed. Just for addition, I think that sometimes a fight is must in a marriage because even if we don't want it, it still happen. No matter how big the fight is, don't forget to look back on our fighting conversation because sometimes in anger we miss out the truth behind our spouse words. Just as @zamifara story goes, the man lose his wife because he did not look back and the woman lose her lige becaise she turn away first and I meant this by vice versa 😅.

Hey @kenny-crane. I think you might like this story. What do you think?

Thanks for drop your words @heartbeat1515...

Did anyone wonder what happened to the wife ?

Nope. It stated in the story that the wife died that night due to heart attack as a result of lack of oxygen. Didn't you read the story throughly?

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