Thank you very much for your words of encouragement, it really means a lot to me! I guess the following pictures best illustrate what you meant.

Duly noted and I will try to “loosen” my grip as a start. Well, it must be something to do with my personality I guess. It must have something to do with my simian lines. Well, please check out my 2nd blog on introduceyourself if you don't know what Simian Line is. Lol