I know nothing about plants. I've never named a plant--and never assigned gender. In this case, you not only have a plant with personality, you have a family! I got involved in their story. I care what happens to them, and I worry about Ophelia--good narration :)
lol you should worry about Ophelia! I am working hard to keep her alive, as I have a black thumb. But I have managed to keep her alive for a year, so it's looking good so far. Hopefully her babies do well too!