With regards to your brothers/family, keep plugging away, it took me over 20 years for my own family to understand what I have been saying about government overreach into peoples lives. And when my mom came to visit last year at 74 years old, she looked me in the eye and said "son, I get it now, I see it, and I have no idea why I never saw it before now" you see bro, they do listen. Even if it looks like they have their head in the sand. I took two steps back for years, and went to Thailand for 6 years, that step away was the best thing I ever did, as my whole family, 2 sisters 1 brother, 1 mother, all came to the same conclusion as me, they just took a lot longer to figure it out. The step back works.