First of all, before I judge or point out to you I want to congratulate you, to begin to recognize mistakes is a great virtue that is not always achieved, we can know that no one is perfect, but to begin to recognize what you do wrong is a good sign, it is a good path, even more so, you have already climbed a step, identify, it is another virtue that not everyone has, it is a step forward for a positive change, for sure you will not become perfect, but playing smart you can be a better person, now it is good to practice self-control! yes, the change is in oneself, it depends on what we really want, I congratulate you and have a happy night.
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