My brilliant well-thought out comment was placed in your previous post.
Don't give up because of the way things work here...it is a bit like all the work and training of looking after a baby - you don't really see the benefits of all that hard work until the day you order them to stop being a snowflake and get a home of their own (and a job). If you did well by them, they'll do well by themselves. If you didn't, then you better keep a bunch of bananas in your basement.
Haha, thank you again. I promise I won't give up!
Fingers crossed that my kids end up getting successful enough to put me in a good retirement home, at least.