This is the word of the Prophet How to Understand Women

There are some errors that are not possible to be eliminated as a whole, because one thing is indeed related to the origin of creation. But what is possible is to minimize and reduce the error, because straightening it completely will lead to disaster, as well as issues related to women.
Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam ever said,

إن المرأة خلقت من ضلع, لن تستقيم لك على طريق, فإن استمتعت بها استمتعت بها وبها عوج, وإن ذهبت تقيمها كسرتها وكسرها طلاقها

"The woman is created from the ribs, which she will never be straight (straight) on one street. If you take pleasure with it, then you will feel good about it. There is also a crookedness. If you act to straighten it out, then you will break it. The breakup of women is divorcing her, "(Narrated Muslim Imam, from Abu Hurairah, 1468).

In one history:

اسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا، فَإِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلْعٍ، وَإِنَّ أَعْوَجَ شَيْءٍ فِي الضِّلَعِ أَعْلاَهُ، فَإِنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقِيْمُهُ كَسَرْتَهُ وَإِنْ تَرَكْتَهُ لَمْ يَزَلْ أَعْوَجَ، فَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ

"You have to be wicked against women with kindness, because the women are created from the ribs. And the most crooked thing on the ribs is the top. If you act to straighten it, then you will break it (break it). But if you let him, he will forever be bent. So it is your deeds of women with kindness. "(Narrated by Imam Bukhari, sourced from Abu Hurayra: Fath Al-Bari, 5186)

Ibn Hajar rahimahullah said,

"The words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam (against women with kindness) as if in the words of the Prophet sallallaahu'alaihi wa sallam there is a formula to straighten the women with gentle, lest he be forced to straighten it, so he can rupture (broken). But do not let him be left alone, because he will continue to be in a crooked state. It can be inferred from the words of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam that, let the woman be left in her crookedness, if the deficiency that has become his nature is over the limit (violate the rules) by doing immoral directly or leave the obligation.

"What is meant by letting the woman in his crook is only in mubah things. In the hadith of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam there is conformity with the tendency of the soul and ketertautan heart. In the hadith there is also the space of women to be able to gain forgiveness for all their behavior, be patient for their crookedness, and that indeed those who desire to straighten them lose the opportunity to feel pleasure with them. In fact, no man who does not need to women, he will be peaceful with him and always need the help in his life. With all that, it is as if Ibn Hajar said, "Feeling the pleasure with women will never be perfect except by being patient with it."

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