I am speechless......virgin or no virgin, that should not describe love in this age and time. People have made mistakes and they might have their past, so to enjoy the relationship you have with them, you just let love lead.

When you make love with someone you love and who loves you back, it should not be moments filled with hurt and regret it should be rather pleasurable.

And if men will wait for sex before marriage........ I doubt it, just be sure it is not one that will cheat on you.(My opinion)