Love & Marriage ...!!
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Love. Love. Love. Often used as a subject that never bored to be discussed. Although he often clogged in the definition and not logic interpret it. But, that does not mean he does not have the meaning and meaning of the true and true; certainly of who has presented the love itself, the All-Having.
Yes, what is love?
In Indonesian, it's hard to define exactly what the real love looks like. Our feelings on the parents, is it love? Yes, it's love. Our feelings on friends are also halaqah friends, is it love? Yes, that's also love. Feelings of a wife to her husband, or vice versa, the feeling of a husband to his wife, is there love? Yeah, what's more, it's love! Everything in Indonesian is called Love, although we are equally perfected that in reality, one and the other is different in its meaning.
Certainly not the same love our feelings to parents, to friends, and to our spouse. But the three of us are both called love, but in fact different, is not it?
If I can conclude, this is one of the characters in our language; many different realities are represented only by the same word, so scientifically, presents a challenge to define.
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Then, What is married?
Getting married is the time when the gates of chastity begin to unfurl
Getting married is a time when imperfection is no longer a matter to be debated
Married is a time where nyuciir masah bulb connect nylon cord flower nguras rice cooking bathtub cooking ngetat potato shopping fences ngokanti diapers no longer aunts do
Getting married is a time where the roots are knitted from the threads of thought
Married is the time when syara is embraced as a benchmark of action
Getting married is a time where sincerity is tied as a smile of affection
Getting married is a time where solitude is dumped as a togetherness
Getting married is a time when anxiety turns to calm
Married is a time when shame turns to glory
Getting married is the moment where the sweat rolls up the struggle
Getting married is a time where loyalty is a fixed price that can not be auctioned off
Getting married is a time where flowers blossom in the gardens
Married is a time when drought is wet by rain water greetings
Getting married is a time when the hearts are petrified by death
Marrying is a choice between God's way and the way of demons
Married is a consideration between guidance and apostasy
Getting married is a time where joy and sorrow come to each other
Getting married is a time where laughter and tears kick one another
Married is a time when fish and corals are united in the ocean.