Women need Househusbands
Good Morning
It is another good day. It is cloudy what makes me feel more lazy than I am. I used to wake up with sound when I hear the music of my alarm in my dreams for a while before realizing that I need to get up. Now a days I feel like my mind if programmed to awake me exactly at 10 o'clock.
All I need in the future is a househusband who can surprise me with a hot coffee and a nice breakfast in our bedroom. Clean the house and prepare the lunch. Take the dog for a walk and do shopping. What a nice dream!
Many of us are lazy or dont like what we do. I never thought about being a housewife, cleaning up and taking care of home. I want to work, travel and enjoy life. I dont care what the society think and I dont obey any cultural rules. It is my life and I should live it the way I want.
When a wife stays at home and the husband works, we say thats her job. She is a housewife and has to take care about everything. When a man stays at home while his wife works, we say he is lazy person. His wife is working and he is staying at home. It can go wrong if the husband is watching TV all day long and doesn't even prepare food for his wife.
Many men think that the women is supposed to do all the housework. But what if the women is working all day! Does she really need to work again at home?! She is paying with her money and health while the man is doing nothing!
A love relation is supposed to be a sacred relation where two people share everything together and keep each other happy. But such reasons can break the relation very soon.
Many people are loosing their jobs now a days and end up depressed and hopeless. But if we change the rules, we can turn our home to a paradise. All we need is compromise.
I dont have any problem to marry a man who wants to be a househusband. I can work out of home while he takes care about the rest. I dont mind to pay for everything, while he is doing his job. It is wonderful to come home, have a romantic candle light dinner and relax after a long day. New world and new rules. It is all up to us!
i wish to god, you will get good husband.
Thank you :)
prayers you found someone have all that characteristics, you mention in your post... but to be honest he is seriously a person with big heart if you found him doing all the home stuff, stick to home,
hhhh and I will work 8 hours per day outside to pay everything :) So he should be lucky to find me :)
looks like some good genetic material
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I'm totally with you on this topic! @hanen
At least I have one supporter thank you :)
Your perception of getting such a househusband appears to standout among many others. let me hear back from you once you got one.
Life is full of surprises :)
At our home, my wife and I do roughly 50/50. We both work full time so that seems more than appropriate. If it would turn out that she would make much more than me, I would be happy to stay home and do the household while she builds her career :)
Of course if you work full time you need to do 50/50. Unfortunately many men dont do it. They want the wife to do everything while they are depressed waiting for a job.
Thats really great. You are a rare diamond :)
I would feel really bad even just expecting something like that! I think how common this is totally depends on the local culture, level of education etc. Thanks!
Yes exactly all depends on the culture and education :)
nice topic hanen there is nothing better than taking responsibility together so that everyone take a responsibility, if they both work outside the house so then they should work again together inside the house even the idea of househusband seems a little bit weird lool
Yes it seems a bit weird, but many man do it now a days. They loose their job and end up with the kids at home.
I am glad you liked the topic :)
yes indeed you are right
Nice post @hanen
Thank you :)
I do work, but besides that I iron, do grocery, laundry, cleaning and cleaning the windows :) And Im loving it, so does my wife :)