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Social media

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i'm ghea and i want to tell you about how to maybe doing good thing on social media In this era , most peoples have a social media account whether it's facebook Instagram, Path, or twitter and now Steemit . this social media makes you free to share everything what you wanna share but, from this situation i recommend you to be carefull with attitude and your privacy and i advice you to do not posting about this Criteria . and this is my story about why you should not to do this 5 things on social media

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Writing about offend ethnicity, religion, race, and intergroup relations and physical condition

i'm asian and trully asian and most people on west allways say to me why are the peoples in asian looks like same each other and i said too to the west people but for me our blood is red and still be red until die . i live in germany and here i learn more about tollerance but there are still many people who didnt have any tollerance with other people who have other ethnicity, religion, race, and intergroup relations. In one time i have been called in german "ricekocher" that means "Ricecooker" , for me that was not so big problem because they said to me directly and i'm still happy because in fact i am allways cooking rice everyday . but i have a friend in my class and she is a "ugly" women (they said) for me "ugly" is the worst word and no one is ugly people, she have allways get a racist things on social media and because of that she commited a suicide (18 years old in 2015 ), that was the most sadly story i ever had.   make sure you never write things about offend ethnicity, religion, race, and intergroup, relations physical condition ,. in addition to sensitive, it can also trigger debate and in most country even a war. thats why choose your words wisely  . "your voice in social media is same as your voice on reallity"

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Badwords languanges

never claim to be a nice people if you do not have a good manner and good attitude. A good speech will make other people want to sympatize with you. if you often post a badwords in social media, you might get deleted by your friends your behavior is not so really good . be wise with worlds . asian peoples allways says your mouth is your tiger. my mother allways say to me

 " your mouth is your identity because no one can read your heart and your mouth is a cover from your heart"

when i was a boy on highschool there was a bad boy in my school and he had allways a power from our friends because we scare with him and in one day he spoke to one girl a badwords and he write on facebook what he said  after that . he lost his power and bullied back by all of students in my school NOW and UNTIL NOW . that was so fantastic because social media is like knife with to side ,sometimes dangerous and sometimes good. 

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Insinuating Person

have you ever insinuating other people on social media? well , dont do that!! thats a boomerang for yourself. if you have any problem with other people you should talk directly to the person who have a problem with you . social media sometimes makes your emotion more not undercontroll and thats make worst your reputation

i have an experience with this thing , i had something problem with one boy on my school wenn i was in highschool , he said to me that i'm just a loser and i didn't accept this word until we had a fighting on social media and after that all people on my school knew this problem and Our reputiation was going worst until we decided to give white flag each other 3 months later . my emotion was not stabil. if you have this problem, go talk directly

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Stop beeing queen and king drama

Avoid often writing abstract and drama speech on social networks. why? In addition to showing your immaturity of your attitude, you can spam the other peoples timeline . Do not let your friend be lazy with you just because of the drama you wrote in your social media . that will make yourself lonely

someday one girl on my class had a boyfriend and they were so romantic in first month and after 3 months they broke up and this girl posted allways about this 3 months drama on Facebook and twitter
in the last status from this girl she said
"how cruel is this world and god is not fair why he didn't love me anymore "
and many people commented with many bad words until she bullied . 

"everybody have a own drama "

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Uploading Sensual Photos near to pornography

i advice you to not upload your sensual fotos on secial media Moreover, upload your personal sensual photos with your couple. Do you want this happen if your photos become abused by others for negative things? You can get negative label from the follower
i have a friend , she had uploaded a sensual fotos with her boyfriend , but that was to sensual and after that someone kidnapped her and raped her . . your fotos is your identity , keep it and save it for a good thing

Conclusion : be wise with your social media :))
gheaboy