Being single with free time is a waste of money.

As a thirty year old male it is only obvious that th4 single life is a pointless dream only few are allowed to see. Single and alone is kind of a farfetched line. Woman don't want that they want someone sad, tired, hurt, and lonely. The thing I don't get is who choses me? Who do I chose? Is there anyone or any point if everyones heros like drinking shouldn't I just go be a bum and drink a bunch of hennesy? I mean everyone likes hennessy that done an important job not sure why someone wouldn't enjoy it if they did what they had to do perfectly.