Be a good man: Menjadi Manusia Baik

Hello all my Steemit friends,

I've been deep in thought for days about a disturbing fact which happen to our daily life. So, my idea of discussing this topic basically from a post I read on Instagram. That post described how people around him [the man whom posted the story] keep commenting negatively about everything he did. It sounded like they complaint a lot of his choosen from things he bought untill his choice of girlfriend.

After reading his status, I realized that the same thing probably also occur to us. For me, it is what I face all the time. That's what makes me thinking a lot before taking decision on something. All negative comments that I got became burden which ended up with me being depressed and too sensitive. I have to bear hearing such words which I know won't be forgotten easily.

I asked myself why others couldn't be more careless. I never mixed in somebody business. I never judged them based on their appearances. I accept them as they are without changing their look and personality. Therefore, I expect them treat me the same way as I did. It is as if they don't like the fact that I am happy. Is that difficult being happy for your friend? Even though not a close one. It is an ABC if I may say.

If this unhealthy feeling towards people keep going on, there will be many victims. As verbal words hurt deeper than physics do. The pain won't fade away as the bruises.

So, let this true story be a lesson for all my readers for respecting our friends or anyone around us. Their life, their choice and their decisions let be theirs. Don't go too far. Show your love and respect to them by supporting as well as praising them. "Just be a good man in your life by doing the right things."