When I grew up I had my own room but years later when my two much younger bro and sis came along they were allowed to sleep with my parents whenever they wanted or were afraid of the dark. If I was afraid of the boogie man I would hide under the covers.
Parents often soften as they get older and change in their views as what is proper upbringing for a child. In the end it doesn’t matter ..just show the child you care about them.
I don’t think it does any harm to let the child come into bed with the parents periodically. If only one bedroom then there is no choice but try to have an extra bed in the room for the child.
Thanks @redheadpei,
Our kids have their own room but so often the little is sleeping in our room. His brother was the same way. Then he just grew out of it. Now he is asking for a lock on his door.
You are totally right that in the end it doesn't matter and parents do soften up over time. I am thankful that I can share my life with these boys even if it is for a short time. They really are in God's hand and you know better than I.
I’m happy you have your boys, Christopher and I can tell you are a kind and caring father even in trying situations.
A child is really a gift, sometimes, like my son, here only for a short time. We don’t always realize this until they are called back to the spiritual realm.
Blessings, dear friend, to you and your family. ❤️