Seriously I can relate to this... You just made me remember when I was trying to get rid of belly fats in college. Funniest thing was that each time we had a pool party, I was always the only one absent. The reason was because I didn't want anyone calling me 'sugar daddy'. But right now I'm so proud of my flat tummy and can remove my shirts anywhere. The truth is then it had serious psychological effects on me. Thanks for reading bro.