Increasing Inner Power In The Heart
Stickiness is an important thing between the child and the parent, but we often ignore it. Parental attachment or attachment is a strong emotional bond between the two. It can be said of an attachment when the relationship lasts long enough and the bonding is felt even though the attachment figure does not appear in the range of the eye. The pattern of relationships and attachment between children and parents in the early days of child growth very menetukan child personality in the future.
Attachment behavior or attachment in the form of attachment (affection of sympathy) is strong between parents and children who are the result of interaction and interpersonal relationships. There are many modern forms of parenting that parents today apply to improve attachment to children. Parents try to build a warm relationship and give the best to their children. Although there are many ways that parents do to build a warm emotional relationship with their children through modern forms of parenting, it turns out that there is something much simpler and has long been the culture of Indonesia and able to build a relationship of attachment between children and parents
"Kissing the hands of parents" is one way to increase attachment between parents and children. There is a relationship that is not spaced between parents and children when the culture of "kissing the hands of parents" is accustomed early on. The child will feel the presence and affection of parents wherever he is with the ritual kissing the hands of every parent going out of the house.
When we as children take the hands of parents and then kiss them, we will feel positive energy flowing from our parents' hands. Every kissing the hands of parents with sincerity then sincerity will also be felt. We will realize how sincere the parents are in raising us. In addition, there will be a sense of respect to both our parents. A number of studies have shown that the attachment of children and mothers will have an impact on psychological and social development. Alan Sroufe, PhD, an attachment researcher, Institute of Child Development at the University of Minnesota, explains that "Children who have attachment can have a better sense of self-esteem." So it is very important for us to maintain and improve the attachment.
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