HOW TO DEAL WITH A "MANGLIBAKAY" WORKMATE 🤔

MANGLIBAKAY - is a Bisaya word and a term, which means ( Back Fighter, Back Bitter, those People who talks negative thoughts behind your back and especially when you're not around.. That’s a manglibakay)

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So, okay? Let's start! Presenting my thoughts and ways on how to deal with those kind of workmates. 😊

Photo Courtesy by: [Istvan Banyai] (http://www.oprah.com/omagazine/how-to-survive-dysfunctional-and-difficult-co-workers)

1. You have to set your mind that whether you like it or not. (They will have something to say with or without you 😉) #BeResponsible

2. Your workmates are not your friends, remember that! Don't get fooled and Don't shared too much. (So never fully give your trust to them). #TrustNoOne 😜

3. Remind yourself that the way they talk and shared gossips behind others is the way they talk behind your back. If they talk nasty things behind others and smile in front of them, for sure not now but time will come they'll do the same thing to you. #BeVigilant

4. Competition is everywhere. When they see and hear that you're doing well. Then they feel threatened. They will look you as a threat and with that they will do anything to make you feel like you're the most foolish employee in your office. But instead of hitting them back, kill them with your achievements and let them wonder with your promotions. #KindnessAndHumility

5. Never tell them your plans, Those manglibakay workmate may also be the insecure workmate of all time. They will do anything to bring you down. #MOVEInSilence

6. When you're working in a branch, never mind your workmates. Yes its hard, but if they keep on talking behind your back and so plastic to you. (insert HAYA-AN MO SILA song) in the end of the day remind yourself : we are all employees here only, your workmate is not the one paying you. Its the organization you're in. Okay? Get up girl/man! 🤙 #NoteToSelf #IgnoreThePerson

7. Once is okay, Twice is still negotiable. But Thrice is not acceptable! If that sh*t happens roll over again Confront your very good co-worker. (Insert sarcasm here) #WeAllHaveLimitations

8. Distance yourself, cliche may it seem. But I tell you, it works! Work with the works that are given unto you and after distance yourself from them. Remember that you can't choose your workmates but all of us can choose to be civil or just don't mind them at all. As long as you know that you've done your tasks already. #AvoidDirectContact #WorkMattersOnly

9. Whatever they do you unto, Pray for them. Treat them with respect, because they totally need it. They try to ruin you because they lack to have what you have. Remember the golden rule , Confucius says “Do not Do unto others what you don’t want others Do unto you.” #AcceptanceAndFaith

   and lastly but surely not the least;

10. "FOCUS" It is timely and relevant that we get affected by other people's say and evil doings to us. But don't worry too much, yes it is painful but I tell you it is 101 % curable and remediable. We all have perfect timezone. Wait for it, and be reminded that there's so much in store for all of us. With that, you focus on the good. You focus on your dreams, ambitions, future endeavors and plans. All is well in due time, in universe time and above all God willing timing. Actually it takes process, a long run process but eventually you can have it and what's good on it, it'll happen when you least expect it. Right now, as what advice's I've received that I wanted to share also to all of you : Focus on what makes you happy, and just imagine how much you have accomplished in spite of the toxicity you are in as of the moment. #YouCanDoIt! #ItTakesWhatItTakes ♥

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That's it for now! This is all dedicated especially to those work-in progress like me, and to those working hard in an organization but lacks with employer-employee relationship and to those struggling being with manlibakay workmates 😉 . Salute to all of you guys and love, always! ♥ I Hope you have learn something & If you need someone to talk with regards to those matters, count me in! 😊

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P.S. Forgive me, for some grammatically error's, I'll check it asap. ✌

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