FRIENDSHIP

cloe210488 (43)in #steemph • 7 years ago

What is FRIENDSHIP for you?, Who’re they in your life?, and How they affect you as individual?

Well, sa akin pong sariling experience at kaalaman, friendship consists true friends that makes you laugh when skies are the darkest, true friends na kahit masakit n mga naririnig mong mga banat nila, ehh ok lang because its for your own good, friends na proprotektahan ka din sa kahit anumang pagkakataon at panahon, and friends that will make you feel like you’re on the top of the world when you’re feeling crushed to the ground.

Friendship is one of the most beautiful/ pinakamaganda at mababasaging salamin na relasyon dito sa ating mundong ginagalawan. Ang ating mga kaibigan ay isa sa mga taong ating pinang huhugutan ng lakas at nagbibigay supporta na hinahanap naten sa ating mga buhay. Spending time with our true friends is one of the greatest joys in the world. So anu nga ba talaga ang kahalagahan ng kaibigan sa ating buhay? Why is the value of true friend equated sometimes even with a parents or a soulmate? And what is that invincible bond that holds friends together na umaabot ng taon and paminsan panghabang buhay pa. At anu Yung pinaka-importanting aral sa buhay naten that friendship teaches us?

SHARING/PAGBIBIGAY

Nabubuo ang isang pag kakaibigan dahil sa pagbibigayan. Kapag nag share tayo ng ating paboritong laruan, share ng ating pagkain sa school, office gossip or even damit naten after the big night. It’s just seems better when sharing it. Yung pag bibigay ay nag tuturo saten na wag maging madamot. And ito yung pinaka sweet na aspeto ng pag kakaibigan.

TRUST/TIWALA

Ang pinaka mahalagang aspeto ng pag kakaibigan. Ito ang pundastuyon ng mag kakaibigan upang magkaroon ng pag uunawaan. Kapag sinabi mo sa kanya ang mga SECRETS mo which is kayo lang nakakaalam, yung napagsasabihan mo kung sino yung mga crushes mo, tapos yung kapag may boyfriend ka na, tapos yung mga heartaches mo. Ang sarap ng feeling kapag nasasabi mo sa kanya without thinking that he or she will judge you of what you’ve done. The trust grows as the friendship matures, even trust the judgement of our friend blindly, having the confidence na hindi nila tayo ipapahamak.

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL MOMENTS IN LIFE

Kung babalikan man naten definitely yung mga masasayang moments ng buhay naten, will surely those moments are the days we spent with our friends. Yung unang tikim ng “yosi” at alak, yung kasama mong mag cutting classes, paliligo sa dagat and higit sa lahat ay ang sleepovers- such memories always lighten the heart and bring a smile in our face. Maybe lahat tayo naranasan ito. These small but unforgettable moments shared with friends make our life beautiful and satisfying.

Friends accept you for what you are. Yung alam mong tatangapin ka nila kahit anung ugali meron ka, and nagiging totoo kang tao pag kaharap sila. True friendship can cross the barriers of financial status in life,religion, sex, color or kahit na nga nasa malayong lugar pa ang pagitan nyo. I remember my friends “JAZABELLE “ they became my friends not just because they are beautiful, they are rich or having a good looks, they became my friends because nagiging totoo akong tao pagkasama ko sila. Always friends believe in you.

May mga pagkakataong sa bawat buhay naten dumarating ang kahinaan at nawawalan tayo ng tiwala sa ating mga sarili. It is then that the real value of friends shines through. Naniniwala sila sa kakayanan mo sa mga oras na gusto mo nang sumuko at wala ka nang makapitan. Yung kaibigan na unang masaya kapag nakamtam mo ang mga pangarap sa yung buhay. Good friends act as valuable guides, cautioning us when we tired the wrong path and rejoicing in our success. Try to think of the memorable moments in your life with friends... Sweet success of the graduation day, of the first job, big day of your wedding day. Our friends/ true friends are never far behind to celebrate and give us a tap on the back, shoulder to cry on when your are down and a happy face when you are high.

As what I read in the book “The seeds of friendship need to be sowed deep and the plant needs to be carefully and tenderly nurtured to bear a great fruit.” I want to end my blog by quoting a few lines from the title song of a popular singer Bruno Mars “COUNT ON ME”. If you ever find yourself lost in the dark and you can’t see, I’ll be the light to guide you. Find out what we made of, when we are called to help our friends in need, and also another quotation from my friend “The greatest value of having a friends is that what you get from them, but the better person you become because of them.”